Please, Don't be a Tease

Here's the thing, in college "being a tease" seems to be a topic that a lot of my friends are discussing. Many are guilty of being a tease, but some do not see the issue with being one. There are different points of view when discussing whether or not being a tease is a good or bad thing.

The reality is that being a tease is a dangerous role to play. Many women believe since they are not 'giving away everything'  that men will want them more. Okay, self-proclaimed teasers, that is not true. You are not only putting yourself in a sketchy situation that can easily turn out to be dangerous, but you also give off the wrong impression to other potential dates by coming across a bit trashy and definitely not "wifey" material.

If you want a serious relationship then do not give anything away in the beginning besides a few smooches. Once the relationship is monogamous and you both consider it to be a serious relationship then it is appropriate to engage in whatever you feel comfortable with doing. By following that guideline you will not only be respected more, but also the you will prevent unnecessary heartbreak if the relationship ends sooner than you had thought it would.  In my personal opinion, I believe that being in love is the main factor you should base the decision on, but in the world we all engage in today I know many people disagree with that thought.

The woman who does not give it all away too fast keeps the man intrigued and interested, for the right reasons.

“There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain.” ― Audrey Hepburn